The Power of a Vision
A year ago my dad was hospitalized with a rare blood disease. Doctors said that it was unlikely for a man his age to survive it. All the experts at the hospital thought he was a goner. It was a very scary and sad time for him and our whole family. We had already lost my mom eight years ago to cancer and didn't want to lose him too.
Before I went to visit him I walked to the beach near my house and sent him a video I made of the ocean in front of his favorite place to visit, The Ponte Vedra Lodge and Club. In the video I said, "Dad, if you make it out of the hospital this ocean and beach is waiting for you. I am going to pay for you and Elaine (his girlfriend but they are like husband and wife) to stay at the lodge for a week."
I drove down to South Florida to visit him in the hospital shortly after that. The prognosis still wasn't good and the news got worse. A few hours after I arrived his colon ruptured and they frantically prepped him for emergency surgery. So now he was dealing with a rare blood disease and a ruptured colon.
As they wheeled him away to the emergency room he yelled, "I'll see you on the other side!"
I ran to him and said, "Dad you can't think that way. Do you want to come back? Do you want to live?"
He said, "Yeah. I want to come to the beach for a week and stay at the Lodge."
I said, "Great. Then you are going to make it!"
He survived the surgery, survived the rare blood disease and now a year later his doctors call him a walking miracle.
Last week he came to visit and stayed at The Lodge. I joked with him that when I made the offer I didn't think he was going to make it. But seriously we both know it was the best gift I could have given him.
I didn't know what I was doing at the time but looking back I realize I was giving him a vision for the future, something to hope for and something to look forward to.
We all need a vision that keeps us going. If you don't have one I want to encourage you to create one. If you can see it you can create it. If you have a vision then you also have the power to make it happen.
Here he is a year later with Elaine enjoying the beach at the spot where I made the video.